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Have you wondered why your relationships seem to operate similar patterns? Would you like to know how to put your best foot forward in a relationship? Have you ever wondered what the magic button is that could make your relationship an ideal one? Of course, you already know that just because you find the right person doesn’t mean you automatically have the best relationship. 

This is often because of the different experiences people have been through in previous relationships or in life generally – and some of these experiences may not have been as positive. And since a relationship commitment requires serious interpersonal skills, a firm understanding of yourself becomes key. Through our couple's and relationship coaching, you can gain more confidence in your ability to navigate serious relationships to further your love life, as well as master how to focus on what matters, while making most of the differences. 

Think about it, what would it be like for you when you realise that you can positively and effectively manage anything that arises in your relationship. How much peace of mind would you like to have when you realise that your ideal relationship is really possible and not just fantasy! Which means taking this step with us becomes an easy and natural decision for you right now.

“The coaching takes it up a notch to next level. Thank you so much guys, I have no idea how I would have done it without you. You have no idea how you have inspired me on this journey.”

“the coaching helped me immensely in my personal life and self-rediscovery journey. I like that is structured and personalised. I really felt understood.”

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Everyone has a story, just as we all have things about us that we wish weren’t there. Usually, a lot of what limits us happened in childhood or at some significant point in our lives. It is common knowledge now that a lot of the issues people face in relationship – whether trust issues, obsessive behaviour, possessiveness, insecurities, feelings of inadequacy, controlling behaviours, aggression, victim mindset, and more – the reality is that these things don’t have to be. You probably already know that these issues run deep, and people don’t overcome them just by sheer willpower.

Ben, one of the founders of Chotayah Match, is a certified Psychotherapist and Behavioural change expert with years of experience helping patients uncover personal issues, break down obstacles, and work towards their goals. Whether you’re struggling with private, professional, or relationship-based problems, Chotayah Match can guide you through a process of acceptance and healing to help you overcome. Which means you can step into your relationship with the confidence that being in that relationship definitely makes your life experience better. Imagine that feeling of knowing that the things that hold you back now have zero hold on you. Imagine what freedom to be the best version of you feels like. Now imagine how quickly this can happen for you as you tap into this service that you get when you join Chotayah, trusting us with this.


“I engaged with Ben at a point in my life when I was struggling with leaving a toxic relationship and finding myself again. Our conversations and sessions that followed literally saved me. He took his time to change my orientation and mindset about how I see myself, my relationship with myself and other people.”


“Ben helped me regain my sanity and showed me how to best handle and control my emotions.  Ben is the most kind, patient and understanding coach I have met. He helped me boost my self-esteem, manage my emotions and moved my one time chaotic home to a peaceful loving home. The best part of my journey with him is definitely the way I could hear and feel every of his words replaying in my heart as I go through my daily routines. I can’t tell how he did magic without a wand, the self-consciousness/awareness of my general being and how my body works is enormous!”


Chotayah’s professional matchmaking services are specifically designed to help highly successful Africans find their ideal life partners based on personal preferences, culture, experience, and more. Drawing on our experience as matchmakers and leveraging cutting-edge technology, we’re able to help you finally find the one. This means helping you through some of the challenges that busy professionals encounter while looking to date.

Our process is very discrete. We pass every match through a background check to verify every information given.

We are very selective in who we take as clients and even more selective in whom we match them with.

Chotayah is uniquely positioned to help our high flying clients in the UK and beyond find personalised matches that line up with their unique preferences. Because we strive to be the best in the world at what we do, we only work with the best.

High-achieving, High-performing, and with the world as their playground, our clients are part of a select group of people where equals are few and far between. Their lives may be limitless, but the number of suitable partners they meet most certainly isn’t. We redress this imbalance and introduce them to the other, selectively, seamlessly and discreetly.

We leverage their scientific expertise and peerless insight to match powerful and accomplished African ex-pats with partners who suit them perfectly. We’ve specifically designed our high-end matchmaking service to cater to successful singles like you who understand the value of investing in their love life. Chotayah uses a winning combination of intuition and science to help you find your ideal match. We work with everyone individually; all services are customised and personalised to your unique situation.

We only take on men as Matchmaking Clients. ALso we only work with clients that have gone through our coaching services.

“One of my best pals just found his amazing heartbeat under two months. They have met, love-struck and wedding bells soonest. Chotayah rocks. God bless you. – UT

“wow, you guys are so through. Everyone should work with you guys, it really is worth every penny. Thank you guys.”

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